BEFORE YOU ALTER A WORD ALWAYS REMEMBER!!! "When a glass is broken, the sound of breaking disappears immediately whereas the glass pieces are scattered over the ground hurting whoever walks over it". Similarly, "when you say something that hurts people's emotions and feelings,the voice disappears immediately but the heart remain in pain for long." Therefore, don't say anythiñg except good and remember always the nine advises and prohibitions that Allah Almighty gave us in Suratul Hujurat (The Sura of Islamic manners) before you say something to anyone: 1- ﺍﻮﻨﻴﺒﺘﻓ: "Fa Tabayyanuu": Investigate: when you receive an information,lest you harm people out of ignorance. 2 - ﺍﻮﺤﻠﺻﺄﻓ: "Fa Aslihuu" Make settlement: between your brothers as believers are brothers. 3- ﺍﻮﻄﺴﻗﺃﻭ: "Wa Aqsituu": Act justly: whenever there is a dispute try for settlement and act justly among both parties as Allah loves those who act justly. 4 - ﺮﺨﺴﻳ ﻻ: "La Yaskhar": Don't ridicule people,perhaps they may be better than you to Allah. 5 - ﺍﻭﺰﻤﻠﺗ ﻻﻭ: "Wa La Talmizuu": Do not insult one another. 6- ﺍﻭﺰﺑﺎﻨﺗ ﻻﻭ: "Wa La Tanabazuu": Do not call each other with offensive nicknames. 7- ﻦﻈﻟﺍ ﻦﻣ ﺍﺮﻴﺜﻛ ﺍﻮﺒﻨﺘﺟﺍ: "Ijtanibuu Katheeran min Zanni": Avoid negative assumptions, indeed some of the assumptions are sins. 8 - ﺍﻮﺴﺴﺠﺗ ﻻﻭ: "Wa La Tajassasuu" Do not spy on each other. 9- ﺎﻀﻌﺑ ﻢﻜﻀﻌﺑ ﺐﺘﻐﻳ ﻻﻭ: "Wa La Yagtab": Do not backbite each other. Its a major sin equivalent to eating your dead brother's flesh. Lastly Allah said in the Qur'an "remind for the remainder benefits the believers". May Allah continue to Bless and guide us in all our affairs: Aameen.